1. Pain gives great potential for you to do amazing things.
2. Friends come and go, but it doesn’t make any of them less valuable while they were with you.
3. The same way you embrace joyful and happy moments…embrace the suffering and difficult moments too.
4. Most of the things that we think are a “big deal” in our daily lives, probably are not.
5. Our parents are a LOT smarter than we thought.
6. Everyone should experience heartbreak at some point. I believe it’s healthy and part of growing up.
7. Years really do get shorter and shorter, don’t waste them.
8. ..and contrary to #7… Take your time to figure out yourself and life. There is pressure, but remember #4.
There is only one sin, only one. And that is theft. Every other sin is a variation of theft… When you kill a man, you steal a life. You steal his wife’s right to a husband, rob his children of a father. When you tell a lie, you steal someone’s right to the truth. When you cheat, you steal the right to fairness.
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“But one thing that I learned from you, Blair. You don’t give up on the people you love” - Chuck
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Downfall?
- Blair: Then what are you here to apologize for?
- Chuck: Everything else. I’m sorry for losing my temper the night you told me Louis proposed to you. I’m sorry for not waiting longer at the Empire State Building. I’m sorry for treating you like property. I’m sorry I didn’t tell you I loved you when I knew I did. Most of all I’m sorry that I gave up on us when you never did.
- Blair: Thank you. I hope never giving up on people isn’t going to be my downfall.
- Chuck: That’s why you’re going to be an amazing mother. You’re always there for the people you love. Even when they don’t deserve it.
- Blair: You know that’s never going to change.
- Chuck: It’s okay if it has to. Starting tonight I’m going to take care of myself.
Remember the Golden Rule: Fool me once, you’re the fool, fool me twice, I’m the fool. You’ll get someone better, as simple as that.
“1 or 2 difficult years I shall pass and endure, for the sake of 60s more years spending life together…”
I always keep reminding myself of that sentence through our hard times. Everytime when I feel lonely and need you by my side, everytime when I can’t be there by your side.1 atau 2 tahun nggak apa-apa lah begini, jika akan terbayarkan dengan 60 tahun hidup bersama (jika kita diberi umur panjang hingga lebih dari 80 tahun).. I know I am not the only one who feel lonely here, you too. But I never seek out the other companionship rather than you. How could you lie to me and sneak out with another girl? I know you were very depressed and frustrated, but it doesn’t make it okay to seek out that girl. It really saddened me and hurt my heart down to the core.
But you feel you were disregarded, enggak dihargai, enggak diakui. I really don’t want you to feel that way :( why don’t you think about our happy times? When we laugh together, when we hug each other, when we cuddled, when we talk about our future plan, when we talk about our friends, when I hug you while you’re driving………
Now you’re doing this. Aku jadi mikir, setiap kamu depressed or frustrated kamu mikirnya ke kata-kata that girl, bahwa dia bakal nunggu kamu di saat kamu siap menerima dia. Bukannya mikir bahwa ini adalah suatu proses yang harus kita lalui kalau ingin spending 60 years of our life to be together….. That’s why I want you to put her last letter to the trash. But you wouldn’t listen. And everytime we argued about her, you pick her side. Said you feel guilty, she’s nice and you already hurt her feelings. Silly, at that time I don’t know what that really mean. But now I know, it means “it’s better that you’ve hurt me thousand times to the core than you hurt that girl, again”. To think back again, we should’ve split up the moment when you took her side.
I just want you to believe in me. Believe in our relationship. Believe that we can sort this thing out together. I always believe in you, sometimes when I had this bad feeling that you’re communicating with that girl, I keep denying it. Until one time, that I really really really curious, something’s not right, then I asked you if you’re still contacting that girl. You said “No, maybe she’s writing about other guy”. Then, she stopped writing on her tumblr. Girl can be a really good detective you know. Even she stopped writing on her tumblr doesn’t mean that I cannot seek another information from other sources.
We got back together in June, then you start to contact that girl in September, do you think our relationship is a joke? …..
Aku ga pernah mikirin cowo lain selain kamu, kenapa kamu kaya begini…….. Kamu bisa bilang kamu takut kehilangan aku dan ga mau nantinya ada cowo lain yang suka sama aku, sehingga kamu ga bole ak dandan cakep2 dll. Tapi kamu? Disaat aku jaga jarak aku ama cowo-cowo lain, kamu malah contact that girl. I feel really stupid. I don’t know how to describe my feelings anymore.
I fought hard. But I guess it’s all not worthed. :( I just wanna show you that I’ve not given up on you although you have already given up. But the moment when I found out you get back together again with that girl, lied to me and cheated on me, everything’s crushed.
Semuanya salah, seharusnya disaat kamu pertama kali tinggalin aku, aku ga cari kamu lg. Aku biarin aja kamu sama cewe itu. Kamu masih anggap kamu terus kan yang cari aku, kamu yang terus berusaha. Mungkin menurut kamu aku hanya cewe manja yang nuntut ini nuntut itu sambil marah-marah. Mungkin kamu lupa, berapa kali kamu mau give up tapi aku selalu cegah. Mungkin kamu juga lupa, seberapa senengnya kita waktu ketemu dan bisa spend time together. Lupa juga kali berapa kali kita berantem gara2 cewe yang sama.
Huff.. so this is a feeling to be cheated on. I’ve never thought I would feel this kind of feeling. When you said that you still think of me when you’re with that girl. I wonder, if you think about that girl when we’re together.
You don’t have to worry about me. I won’t self destruct. I will have a good life. Find a good man. Marry him and have a wonderful family and kids. :D then have our kids married, kids have their own family, we have grandchildren and we spend the time together as an old happy couple yang keriput-keriput tapi tetep sayang satu sama lain. v^_^v
It used to be our plan. But not anymore. You’ll have your own plan with your own girl. This is the end of us. The very end. No more story behind this dot anymore.
Never enough
Less scientific, but perhaps more compelling, is a survey of wealthy U.S. citizens who were asked, “How much wealth do you need to live comfortably?” Those with a net worth of over $1 million said that they needed $2.4 million to live comfortably, those with at least $5 million in net worth said that they need $10.4 million, and those with at least $10 million wanted $18.1 million. Apparently, most people never have enough.
